When did the LDS church stop caring about the importance of family?

The Bishops have resources at their disposal that specifically come from fast offerings (not tithes). These funds are given by members to ist the welfare of the needy. There are guidelines about how this money maybe used. If your father needed help to pay the rent, provide food or clothing, it would have been available. I understand your grief. I know it will be hard to accept it, but the Bishops do have to keep the fiduciary trust they have been given and say no more than they would like. I have seen the other side of the coin, and know that families are being helped every day.